How often do we run to grab the latest book, get on the next teleclass or just scratch our heads wondering how to create ease in manifesting all that we desire? We look for that one tool, meditation or nightly ritual that is once and for all going to get that which always seems just out of reach. We forget one important thing: we already are master manifesters and just need to look at what we already attract with ease. I’ll explain:
I recently had a realization that there were certain things in my life that I manifest every single time I wanted it without fail. At the same time, there are those things that I seem to have more resistance with, which got me thinking: if it’s worked for me before, why not just apply the same process, right? Or, was there even a process at all? I explored further….
There are two areas of my life, probably even more but two that come to mind loud and clear, where I manifest what I want effortlessly. That is the key here, effortlessly! Not only that, but people have often commented on how things always work out for me. Think it’s an accident? I don’t.
I have always been able to get the exact apartment/house I wanted. I would imagine the feeling the place would have, general characteristics, price range, etc. and it has always appeared. The interesting thing is that I always knew it would. I never had any experience of this not happening so there was no doubt whatsoever. Probably my favorite experience with this was when I moved from NYC to Laguna Beach, CA. I said to myself that if I was going to leave NY and live in a beach town, I wanted to live in a very “beachy” home. I could feel what that would be like; open, bright, light-colored furniture, etc. I found it at the second apartment I looked at. Ocean views from every room as it was partially up a canyon (much MORE than I envisioned). It was mine for 2 years!
The other area where I always had ease in manifesting was getting the job I wanted. Again, once I knew what I wanted and could see myself in that role (my old corporate working life), I always approached an interview with the attitude of “I’ll get it.”. And, most times, I got it.
And yet, I noticed that there are two areas of my life where ease and knowing have not been the dominant vibration: the relationship I wanted and money (sound familiar?). I then started to wonder what was holding me back; I mean after all, I am a master manifester. When I looked at this what came glaring at me was “well, duh…listen to the story you are telling about those areas!” I had no story about the apts. and jobs so they came very easy to me. Or, I should say, my story was “I always get what I want” and I did.
I looked at the stories I was telling myself (and I’m sure to countless others in casual conversation) regarding my relationship history and my financial past. There were two very apparent things I noticed: I had mixed vibrations going based on my past beliefs and what I now presently wanted. The other big part was not having the clarity of what I really wanted actually looked like. I was able to manifest relationships but since I was telling myself a certain story of what I thought I needed to have, that is exactly what I got. Same for the money situation; I could manifest money whenever I needed it, and frankly got a little too good at the “just getting by” scenario that I neglected to really look at what abundance and “more than enough” would look and feel like. This was a huge “aha” for me.
So, realizing that my money story came from my parents (where most of our money stories, both good and bad come from) and my relationship story came from my not really believing I could have all that I wanted, I saw it as a wonderful opportunity to change my beliefs and allow the same ease of allowing as I was always able to do with apartments and jobs.
Here is the simple process I use myself and with clients to allow the manifestion they want with what they already know:
Find evidence that you are already a Master Manifester. This is going to show up differently for different people, but what do you always seem to attract into your life every time and you always know you will? It can be something as simple as, “I always get a parking spot whenever I need one”. For others it will be something bigger like “I can get any man I want to ask me out”.
Once you have an item (or few), look at the belief/thoughts you have when you decide you want it. Mine was something like “I can find this…I always do” Or “Once I decide what I want and can see myself living there…it’s mine”. As you can see, there is no doubt whatsoever. I claim it now.
Now look at an area in your life where there is strong desire but have been unable to manifest. Take a few minutes and notice what are the first feelings/thoughts/beliefs that come to you about this. Is it something like: “I want it…but”. Know that the “but” is like putting a “cancel” stamp on your order. It’s a vibration of doubt, fear or uncertainty, which means you are not aligned with it and cannot allow it to manifest (at least, not without A LOT of work).
Create a new belief about what it is you want. If it’s the new “perfect” relationship start telling yourself (and as many others who will listen to you) that there are so many women/men out there and I get to choose the perfect one for me. This person is looking for me as I am looking for them. I can already feel what it will be like to have this relationship. Then, know it’s coming, without a doubt just because you know how to get what you want. You can even say to yourself: “I am attracting this relationship with the same ease that I have attracted _______”. Evidence of past success is a huge vibration shifter!
Taking a look from this perspective is important because not only does it show us how we already are Master Manifesters, but looking at what shows up easily for us can shed some light on those things that do not, and since they are examples from our own life, we already know the feeling that we have when we allow things effortlessly to come to us and how we can apply that to the other things we want.
Laura Gevanter is a law of attraction coach, a global consciousness educator, blog talk radio host, retreat leader and the founder/creator of the alchemy café: creating conscious conversation. as a former self-help junkie she believes the path to a more fulfilling life is not fixing what is “wrong” with us, but expanding our consciousness to the world around us and all the ways we are interconnected.
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